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Visionaries: How To Actually Enjoy This Holiday Season

The holiday season should be full of joy, yet for Visionary entrepreneurs, it often becomes a blur of busyness. Through my work as a Fractional Integrator™, I've seen how easily balance can slip away. The struggle to prioritize personal time over professional demands is real and common.

Despite this, there is a path to a more fulfilling holiday season. I've helped many leaders find time for what truly matters during this special time of year. It involves a conscious choice: to step back from work and immerse in life's moments.

This article guides you through intentionally creating a holiday season where memories are made, not missed. You deserve to leave your work at work and have a holiday season that’s filled with time for connection and celebration once again. And to make this all a reality, we’ll discuss the steps you can take to ensure that work success and personal happiness are not just possible but thrive together.

Recognize the Value of Presence This Holiday Season

For the entrepreneurial mind, switching off from work mode is often easier said than done. But recognizing the value of your presence is the first step toward enjoying the holiday season. However, this isn't merely about being physically present. It's about embracing each moment with your full attention.

So, how can you start truly being present this holiday season? My best advice is to start small if you need to. Dedicate specific times for family activities where work is not allowed. Communicate this to your team so they understand and respect these boundaries. Turn your phone on Do Not Disturb mode, or better yet, keep it in another room. And don’t forget to put your “Out of Office” message on for your email, along with the next point of contact to reach out to. By doing this, you’ll be able to stay away from your inbox more confidently for the entire time you’ve allotted.

As a Fractional Integrator™, I've seen the transformation that takes place when visionary leaders finally detach from work and truly engage with their surroundings outside of the office. By doing these small yet incredibly impactful things, you not only prioritize the people who matter the most in your life but also model the importance of work-life balance for your employees. And the results of you setting a tone that values personal time as a leader can be far-reaching, impacting everything from your workplace culture to the personal lives and well-being of your team.

Delegate with Trust

Delegation is often a hurdle, yet it's crucial for any leader seeking balance. But the key is to delegate with trust. Identify tasks that others can handle and let go. This isn't just about freeing up your schedule – it's about empowering your team to step up and lead.

You can begin this process by evaluating tasks that you can pass on. Use simple tools to categorize tasks based on urgency and alignment with your skills. And once you've pinpointed what can be delegated, invest time in training your team to take over these responsibilities. Trusting your team to manage in your absence is not only liberating for you but also builds a stronger, more capable team for the future.

In addition, this is also where having a trusted second-in-command, also known as an Integrator™, can make a significant difference in managing your business through the holiday season. Integrators™, like myself, act as your trusted lieutenant. We’re experts in understanding your vision, communicating it with the team, and executing it with the same passion and precision you would. And since an Integrator™ serves as a buffer between you and the daily operations, you’ll have more time to detach with peace of mind because knowing your business will continue to thrive, even when you take a step back to recharge and celebrate. As a result, you’ll have the freedom to enjoy the festivities and create unforgettable memories with your loved ones.

Embrace Efficient Planning for the Festive Rush

The holiday season doesn’t slow down the business world. In fact, it can be the peak time for many industries. However, there is a strategy to stay ahead without sacrificing your holiday spirit: efficient planning. And you can begin this process by reviewing the successes and hiccups of the previous year’s holiday season. What can you improve? Where can you streamline processes?

Afterward, begin delineating your priorities. Break down your goals or ROCKS into actionable tasks and set clear deadlines well before the holidays. And don’t forget to utilize project management tools and delegate tasks to team members with the skills to execute them independently. All in all, this proactive approach can reduce last-minute rushes and the need for your constant oversight.

Moreover, encourage your team to wrap up their year-end responsibilities early. By creating a culture of efficiency, you mitigate the risk of work spilling over into the holiday period. And the benefit? A more relaxed and focused you, ready to soak in the warmth of the holiday season without the lingering thoughts of unfinished work.

Cultivate a Supportive Team Environment

A strong, self-sufficient team is the bedrock of a worry-free holiday. And this begins with cultivating a supportive environment where each member is encouraged to take initiative and make decisions. To build this culture, start with regular training sessions well in advance of the holiday season. Ensure each team member understands not only their role but also those of their colleagues. In addition, cross-training can be especially effective, as it allows for a flexible team that can cover for one another.

Fostering open communication is equally crucial. Establish a protocol for decision-making in your absence and empower your team to resolve issues without relying on you. Consider hosting a pre-holiday meeting to go over any last-minute details and to reinforce the confidence you have in your team’s abilities.

Equally important, encourage your team to support each other. After all, a team that works well together is more likely to handle the unexpected, keeping the business humming smoothly while you're away. And don’t forget to recognize and reward their autonomy and problem-solving skills to reinforce those positive behaviors that contribute to a robust, self-reliant team culture.

Set Realistic Expectations for Holiday Availability

As the festive season approaches, it’s vital to set realistic expectations—both for yourself and your team. It’s equally important to acknowledge that everyone, including you, deserves to celebrate and recharge. So, how can you do this?

Start by communicating your availability clearly. Next, determine the level of access your team will have to you during this period. Will you check emails once a day? Will you be available for emergency calls only? Basically, decide what works for you and stick to it.

In addition, encourage your team to do the same. This helps in creating mutual respect for personal time. When you lead by example, it sends a strong message to your team about the importance of downtime. This respect for boundaries not only boosts morale but also fosters a more balanced, productive team when everyone returns to work fully refreshed.

Foster a Mindset of Quality Over Quantity

In the run-up to the holiday season, remind yourself and your team that it’s the quality, not the quantity, of work that truly counts. This mindset shift can lead to more focused and efficient work practices. And it can reduce the need for long hours. You can do this by encouraging your team to concentrate on critical tasks and to prioritize work that aligns with core business goals.

Another thing you can do is audit your current workflows for any inefficiencies and address them before the holiday rush. By doing so, you can avoid the all-too-common scenario of busywork taking over valuable time that could be spent with family and friends. Moreover, when you prioritize quality in your business practices, it resonates with the service your clients receive, often leading to better satisfaction and loyalty.

Additional Tips That Help Visionaries Enjoy This Holiday Season

Over the past decade, I have worked with numerous Visionaries as a Fractional Integrator™ and have seen various strategies employed to help them reclaim their time freedom and enjoy the holiday season. In fact, I have so many tips to share with you that I will add a few more below. However, I would also appreciate hearing from you if you have any suggestions that are not already covered in this article. So, please be sure to share your thoughts and insights in the comments section below.

  • Reflect and Express Gratitude: Take time to look back at the year's accomplishments. And don’t forget to acknowledge your efforts and those of your team. After all, gratitude can transform your perspective, foster a positive environment, and remind you of the progress made.
  • Post-Holiday Planning: Before the holidays begin, outline a strategy for the new year. Overall, this provides a clear path forward, helps you maintain the equilibrium you've achieved throughout the year, and ensures a stress-free return after the holidays.
  • Prioritize Self-Care: Don't forget to take care of your own health and well-being during the holidays. You can do this by ensuring you get enough rest, engaging in activities that rejuvenate you, and setting aside time for personal reflection. And remember, by doing so, you’re setting an example for your team to follow your lead.
  • Family and Community Engagement: Be sure to make time for what really matters this holiday season. Create and participate in holiday traditions that include family and community. Essentially, your goal should be to foster connections and enrich the holiday experience beyond the workspace.
  • Set the Tone for the New Year: Use this holiday season to establish a precedent for balance and wellness. This time can be the starting point for a year where work-life harmony is the norm, not the exception.

It’s Time to Make This Holiday Season DIFFERENT

As we circle back to the essence of the holiday season, remember—the work you do is important, but the time you spend with family is irreplaceable. Let this holiday season be the one where you truly embrace each joyous moment. Give yourself permission to join the festivities guilt-free. And connect deeply with loved ones. After all, these moments make all the hard work worth it.

Also, if your business operates on EOS® and you’re feeling ready to step back and savor these precious times, know that a second-in-command can safeguard your company's rhythm while you recharge. As a Fractional Integrator™, I understand the nuances of EOS® and how to keep your vision thriving in your absence.

I work exclusively with companies running on EOS® that are either working with an EOS® Implementer™ or have already graduated. If you want to explore how a Fractional Integrator™ like me can help you, please do not hesitate to get in touch. We can work together to ensure your business flourishes while you and your family enjoy a peaceful, joyful holiday season.

About the Author Brenda Violette

Brenda Violette, Founder and CEO of Violette Business Services, LLC, is a highly experienced and sought-after Fractional Integrator™ and Mentor based in Connecticut. With a remarkable track record of over 30 years in leadership, Brenda excels in administration, operations, and people management. As a relentless learner, Brenda actively engages in multiple EOS®-based Visionary/Integrator™ communities and holds esteemed memberships in the FIM (Female Integrator Mastermind) and Advanced Integrator™ Mastery Forum in Rocket Fuel. She’s also a distinguished Rocket Fuel Mastery Program graduate and a certified Kolbe Consultant™. With a keen focus on driving growth and making a positive impact beyond profit, Brenda guides Visionaries to achieve their strategic goals. Brenda brings transformative value to her clients and partners exclusively with companies operating on the Entrepreneurial Operating System® (EOS®), who are already working with an EOS® Implementer™ or have graduated from the program. Discover how Brenda can propel your business towards significant growth and sustainability while freeing you to fulfill your role as the Visionary. Visit www.BrendaViolette.com to learn more.

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